The Common Denominators of all Abuse and Happiness.
Abuse occurs when these 12 Ethics — in any variation — are violated.
Happiness is the Presence and Regulation of these 12 Ethics.
1 – You are obligated to Self-Nourish. Always be mindful of your Physical and Mental Needs.
1a) Have Courage to embrace Vulnerability (Openness to Learn and Connect with Others)
1b) Embrace Boredom and think about where you would direct your Potential Energy
1c) Strategize, Think, and Plan before jumping into an Adventure
1d) Learn to Close to Nourish the Self
2 – Nourish your Self-Authority and Independence and Pursue what you Want and Desire
2a) Make Choices
2b) Practice Independent Thinking
2c) Push yourself to your limits
2d) Always Learn and be Open to Receive
3 – Self-Regulate
3a) Learn the Skill of Balancing what you Need with what you Want
3b) Be Mindful and Learn how to juggle Learning and Adventure with Rest
4 – Master Self-Control with Personal Law and Personal Order
4a) Compose your Laws for You to help you Regulate yourself
4b) Assert your Actions and Choices (2nd Ethic) to Keep yourself Safe
4c) Prioritize the Self over Others so you can always be Optimized to Nourish Others (I bet that one just flipped you on your ass)
5 – Hold Yourself Accountable
5a) Mind the Ripples that your Stone-Throwing and Choices creates for the 7th Ethic is coming
5b) Master the Skill of Mindfully making Choices
5c) Zoom out and Focus on the Big Picture so you always see how your Choices affect others
6 – Preserve the Equal Footing so that you hold The Self Equal to Others
6a) Learn to Self-Forgive
6b) Commit to Learn from your Mistakes
6c) Accept that the Pain you Caused is the Road required to reach the Lesson Learned
6d) Accept that Knowledge comes with a Steep Price
7 – Humble Thyself To The Lesson (The Student’s Ethic)
7a) For you are Your Greatest Judge, Jury, and Damnation and the 7th Ethic is a Time here and all times thereafter where you will answer to yourself for your unethical actions.
7b) Embrace Humility and Submission for only here do we Learn
7c) Be Quiet
7d) Just Listen
7e) Slow Down
7f) Observe
7g) Think
8 – Master The Skill of Effective Communication
8a) Transmit your Voice
8b) Take The Stage for this Strengthens and Nourishes your Authentic Voice
8c) Give Your Voice to Others
8d) Be Mindful of the Reception of Others
9 – Regulate Listening with Talking
9a) Share to maintain Equilibrium and Balance
9b) Preserve Others from Your Self
9c) Mind the Balance of Listening with Talking
10 – All Emotions are Always Right, Correct, and Logical.
10a) Let the Emotions Flow Free
10b) Learn the True Names of All Emotions
10c) Master the Knowledge that 100% of All Emotions come from the Pain of the Inner Self
10d) Master the Knowledge that 0% of All Emotions come from External Sources
10e) Never Chase External Sources from the Emotions that come from Within
11 – Logic
11a) Think with Rational and Reason always
11b) Strategize
11c) Problem Solve
11d) Assess and Evaluate
12 – Master Logical Navigation of Free Flowing Emotions
12a) Pass no Judgment on others for you lack the information and Knowledge to make an Accurate Assessment and you have failed to Learn the moment you Judge
12b) Forgive all Others and the Self, which means to Surrender all Conclusion or Illogic of the Behavior of another
12c) All Behavior is Logical Always for all behavior and choices are built on a logical Series of all events leading up to each and every decision ever made.
12d) To judge is to violate the 7th and 11th Ethic.
If you wish to review the Abstract and the Formula of The 12 Ethics, go here.