Why I Do What I Do
I wanted my children to grow up Free. Free to make Choice without Fear of Coercion or Consequence.
To free my children from the toxic and cruel Philosophies of The System, I needed to build them a new world that would give them the tools that would nourish their growth. Not brainwash their minds in malnourished conditioned obedience void of Imagination.
To parent our children on the philosophy, “I have to teach my child consequences,” is in actuality to teach your child cruelty. Mother Nature already teaches consequences naturally. Physics deems this so with “Every action has an equal and opposite reaction.” A parent who “teaches consequence” actually Interferes with Mother Nature’s equation, doubles the lesson and/or worsens the lesson, which, in most cases, results in invisible suffering and abuse in their child.
Stop teaching children “consequences” to their actions. Mother Nature does a better job of it than you and without the loss of trust in the parent. A parent’s role is to be the cheerleader on the sidelines while religiously following The Prime Directive. Do not interfere with the Natural Evolution and Growth of your Child. Mother Nature has plans with that child that very strongly play a role in her Mathematical equation of computed balance and equilibrium.
Parent with The Prime Directive and leave your children to Mother Nature.
To alter and interfere with your children for your own agenda is an egregious assault on Mother Nature, and she will correct for your interference, most likely at your child’s expense. Instead, focus on correcting your own unresolved and unaddressed losses.
Physics has a lot to say on Interference.
A parent who interferes with Mother Nature’s parenting, is a parent who does not trust the child’s ability to learn, grow, and thrive naturally. That distrusting Parent then teaches the child self-doubt through interference, and the child learns the lesson “I cannot save myself.” This is enabling, toxic, and codependent and is at the core of ALL Mental Illness.
The Interfering Distrustful Parent is more toxic than the neglectful one.
Within the Chapter of the 12 Ethical Stages of Growth, I provide “For the Parent” so that while you learn for you, you also learn for your child. Law of Reflection 100% dictates our Children’s Mental Health, Education, Learning, Development, and Growth.
You want your children to grow healthy, then you need to grow healthy and show them how by simply DOING. Mother Nature uses Physics to step in and she does the rest. You just set the example.
Parent with The Prime Directive and leave your children to Mother Nature.
Big Brother Watching?
*scoffs* Worse than that.
Our Children are Watching.