What to do with this information…

You need to decide if you are wanting to assist with the Union or contribute to the Divide. 

The more you choose a “side,” the more you nourish that Divide. There are no more sides. You cannot have this Country without every last one of those Perspectives in it.

Now you can either learn to live with them or pack up your bags and leave. – Benjamin Franklin to John Adams 1776

The 3rd Perspectives will mock you and lash out at you. The 4th Perspectives will grumble under their breath. The 2nd Perspectives will scoff at you and gossip behind your back. The 6th Perspectives will turn down their noses in superiority.

Every last one of us is a hurt child with the Maturity of a Toddler and it shows.

If you think you are better than everyone else, then BE better than everyone else and humble yourself to treat them with Kindness, Understanding, and Compassion.

I am NOT saying “Be a doormat” and “Suck up their abuse.” I am saying it’s damn time we all learn how to not argue with someone who cannot be nice to others.

Do not judge others. They are dealing with not being loved or even believing there is such a thing. 

Do not argue or make yourself available to a stranger who clearly cannot follow the rules of Social Discussion. 

If you are not having a Respectful Discussion, then you should not be part of that Social Situation. Learn to remove yourself. Let them have their opinions and beliefs. Unless someone is literally holding you captive, get away from these people. 

And for gods sake, HEAL yourself. 

Arguing with others online about your Voice and your feelings so you feel heard is NOT how you feel heard. Start up a Podcast Channel, turn off the Live Chat and the Comments, and start TALKING.

Learn the Difference between when you should Project and when you should internalize. 

Internalize your feelings.

Project your Voice and Ideas.

Internalize your Boundaries.

Project your Passions and Love.

Internalize your Ethics and Trials.

Recognize when others Project. Reject the Projection of Others. Reject the Projections of Others.

How to Get Along with others is next.