No one is going to help you. And if they do, be suspicious. Helping is Disabling. Every time you “need help,” what you really need is to learn.
And when someone “Helps” you, what they have really done is taking away your Problem Solving Lesson. More time has passed for you without you learning how to learn.
Problem Solving is Learning.
“Help” is Toxic.
This is not a Rat Race. It is a Jungle where those who lag behind and can’t keep up, fall behind and they don’t make it.
Those who “keep up” are the ones who learn via DIY to keep up.
The moment you leave school, the hand holding ends. And if you haven’t learned to learn, learned how to DIY, and learned how to keep up, you start falling behind.
You have to do your Due Diligence. You have to do the research to determine Scammer from Expert.
You have to learn how to learn. And when you walk into a classroom, Adults expect you to absorb the material. Ask direct Questions or not talk at all. Take down the Vocabulary fast and look everything up that you don’t know the meaning to.
If you are not prepared for a class, you will struggle. Come to class prepared. This means do the research on the course before you get to class.
Come to class with questions already. Ask the questions if the instructor offers the time. Otherwise, you are expected only to listen, get the information, and then leave. You look up your own questions.
This is how Adults learn.
It’s cold, fast, and brutal.
No one has time to teach others. No one is interested in teaching others. Adults are too busy working. The only ones who seem to have time to teach others are teachers in grade school, which really under prepares you for the way life really is.
Training, not teaching, is what you get from an employer. You want a teacher? Go to YouTube. The working world has no time for hand holding, walkthroughs, or lectures… Not without a fee of course. And a hefty one.
This is why The Healing Garden trains you in Self-Teaching and How To Learn. When you go to a class, plan on being left behind. Adults won’t pause to see you crying or being upset. They will tune you out and they won’t care.
The #1 Life Lesson is Learn to Save Yourself. Learn to Teach Yourself. Learn to Learn and become proficient at it. If you do not do this, then when you hit 18, you will fall behind.
This is what we train you to do at The Healing Garden. Read The Salmon of Knowledge : The Logic of Learning. Read Theory of Love. Read The Handbook For Optimum Learning. Browse through our Courses and you will be decades ahead of most adults.
Adults who are poor fail to learn this lesson. Adults who are homeless fail to learn this. Adults who are Mentally Ill fail to learn this.
Adults who are Wealthy, Prosperous, and Healthy… They learned this lesson.
The #1 Life Lesson is Learn to Save Yourself. Learn to Teach Yourself. Learn to Learn and become proficient at it. If you do not do this, then when you hit 18, you will fall behind.
This is all Grade School should have been teaching you. Most likely, they are not. Which is why most teens don’t leave home at 18. Which is why most adults move back in with their parents in their 20’s, 30’s, and 40’s.