Do you want Belonging or The Self?
Because you can’t have both?
THE CATALYST OF ALL ABUSE : Your Parent’s Lies (Logical Fallacies)
Approval +> Acceptance +> Belonging +> Shelter +> Food +> Death Sentence
Belonging = Community
Community = Survival
This is OLD Psychology (Like… 500,000 year old Hunter/Gatherer Psychology, which is the Foundation of All Psychology)
Parents = Primitive Psychology (Hunter/Gatherer)
Children are VERY literal and LOGICAL… VERY…
When parents do not approve, they really are making you choose between YOU and LIFE.
YOU or LIFE
How are you going to live with yourself?
Civil Divide (This is Multiple Personality, which really needs to be called “Multiple Consciousness Disorder”).
You have two jobs as a parent:
- Unconditional Love
- Unconditional Belonging