Love is not something that you look for or hunt. It is inspired in you by True Love. It is the person who inspires it inside of you.

Love is not something you Possess. It is something that is or is not Naturally between two people.

When you look for Love, you fall in Love with Love and not the Person. When you look for your Person, Love will come to you.

Narcissist “dispose” of People, upgrading them like iPhones.

True Love sees the Person. Never the Love.

Narcissists are compelled to be Loved. We all are. But Narcissists are looking for something they know nothing about and have never seen. So they build a fantasy around what they think it is, what it could be, what it might be.

They show up wearing a mask, fake, and seeking to possess Love without paying the Price of Vulnerability.

So if they find someone, they know “The person doesn’t love me. They love the Mask I gave them. Because I know I never gave them Me.”

And then they lash out and attack the person who fell in love with them. “You don’t love me!” They say this because they know “I never showed you who I really am, because that is my Vulnerability and I never gave that to you!”

If you are not willing to gift Vulnerability to someone, you will never know Love.

Courage to be Vulnerable is the first Trial of Love and Relationships. And if you haven’t been Vulnerable with yourself, then you have no ability to be Vulnerable with another and you will never know love.

Love has only one Price and it is Vulnerability.