Narcissists only play the “Domination” Game. Some Narcissists (Empaths), play the “Vulnerable and Helpless” card to Manipulate Domination.

We call that “Topping from the Bottom” in BDSM. 😉

The Grandiose Narcissist is the Aggressive Dominator who “Tops from the Top.”

If you have ever been around a Narcissist, you have participated in BDSM. Most likely without your Consent.

We call that non-consensual BDSM in the Lifestyle, or “Rape” and “Abusers” for short.

Pro Dom/mes KNOW what *real* BDSM is and what it is not. The more you become Educated about BDSM, the more a Narcissist cannot abuse you.

if someone tells you that “They don’t play the Power Dynamics Game,” then they are really saying, “I require equal Footing and am most likely not available to be Vulnerable.” You have someone who struggles with Vulnerability, but also who will not Violate others.

Once you understand that all Narcissists and Empaths are playing the Power Dynamics Game and “Topping from the Bottom” alongside the Logical Warfare, it becomes much easier to navigate Abusers.