The Stages of Healing 

When I went through my Healing, prior to my developing the 12 Ethical Stages, I tracked my growth with the 6 Stages of Healing. To this day, I refer to these stages because they are vital in defining every Component of the Self.

• The Knowing
• The Belonging 
• The Authority 
• The Naming 
• The Owning
• The Integration
• The Taking 

The Knowing

The Defined Self. A solid Knowing of who you are. In hindsight, this is very much the 1st and 2nd Perspective. 

The Belonging 

The Community. Where you belong. Your You of I. A solid Knowing of where you belong and you get there. In hindsight, this is very much the 2nd and 3rd Perspective. 

The Authority 

Coming into your own Authority. This is when you feel your Power and you claim it with the responsibility. This is the 4th, 5th, and 6th Perspective. Justice.

It was after this point (May 2023) that I discovered Dr. Graves’ Spiral Dynamics. I read two articles and compared his work to my research and was able to deduce that my research and his research were parallel, however, his was incomplete (ending at the 8th Stage), and there were a number of inconsistencies and errors. 

Example: The 3rd Ethical Perspective, he refers to as “The aggressive” stage, which is not at all true. Passive 3rd Perspectives are the least violent, born pacifists and vegetarians in some cases. 

For this reason, I decided to abandon Dr. Grave’s work and proceeded with my own research independently.

The Naming 

The Summation of your Name. Who you are and what your Title is. The 7th, 8th, and 9th Perspective. This also is where I discovered the Emotional Transaction of Human Connection and Economics as an Integrated Component of the Self.

The Owning

Finding your Authority is not the same as Owning your Authority. The Authority stage felt like the day I came back to the castle. I was greeted by my subjects and pampered. Months followed where they encouraged me to take the throne, but I felt I wasn’t “worthy.” I felt I didn’t have “the right.” 

But the Owning is when I finally accepted the Crown and claimed the Throne. Knowing you are Queen is not the same as choosing to accept the role and privilege given to you. This is the 10th, 11th, and 12th Perspective.

Later that year (December 2023), I discovered Pythagoras’ work and saw more parallels between my work and the work of others. For example : He too used the triangle to illustrate the Self, confirming the parallels of my Philosopher’s Compass and Pythagoras.   

The Integration

16 January 2024, I gave name to Integration when I identified the 6th Stage of Healing. This Stage became apparent to me when I realized that knowing the 5 Stages was not “good enough” until and unless they were Integrated. 

Always, the final lesson is in the Integration of the Lessons learned. A constant reminder that this is all about reconciling the Civil Union divided within. The Perpetual Canon is not the Perpetual Canon unless and until you integrate the Components to create The Parent. 

Imagine if you will, that healing is learning about each of the key ingredients. But you still have no stone soup if you don’t combine the ingredients and integrate. 

On 17 January 2024, I Saw the AIDNS and finally realized that these tools of the Self were Components of a Greater Whole. 

• The Philosopher’s Compass (Integrated with the Cartesian Coordinate System)
• The 7 Parts of the Mental System
• The Map of the Subconscious Mind
• The User’s Guide to the Subconscious Mind (The Theory of Love)
• The 12 Ethical Stages of Perspective Growth
• The Cognitive Core and The Happiness Formula
• The Healing Journey Plan
• Emotional Navigation
• The Circle of Trust
• Self-Care Regimen
• Your Healing Journey Plan with Your “Troubleshooting” and the AIDNS Diagnostics.

On that Day, I Saw and suddenly realized that what I had been building as components of the Self the entire time, were pieces of a Machine that, when Integrated to become The Parent, became a Prosthetic Subconscious Mind that would and could function flawlessly and in place of any and all prior “programming” uploaded after birth. I could erase and reset all of my Trauma and “Start over.”  

On this day, 27 February 2024, my AIDNS functions solely and completely on its own, without any adjustments required. My If/Then Clauses are iron-clad and My Circle of Trust keeps my System Independent from other Systems, while protecting the preservation of other Systems close to me. 

My equilibrium is balanced, aligned, and whole and is integrated with Mother Nature. Logic, Math, and Physics are my Constants and they reinforce and solidify my strength. Each AIDNS is designed to function solely on the Logical Truth and Perceived Reality of the Defined Self within the Closed System, allowing your Nourished Self, Dreams, and Desires to nurture, evolve, and grow true to Your Story, unaltered without interference from any and all outside sources.  

This is my hope for you. 

The Taking

15 July 2024. I never thought I would see this day. 

At the moment, I am at The Point of Comprehension at the 7th Perspective Expansion. 36 Levels of Consciousness in plus 7 Additional Expansions out… And I was challenged by an Abuser. 

The realization hit me hard, that no one was more qualified than I to protect these people. No one was more dedicated to their safety and welfare than I. I suddenly, instead of begging the Universe to find someone else for the position, I found myself taking it and pushing back, challenging anyone who dared think they were qualified to take this Mission from me to present their case. 

The protectiveness of my People hit me hard and suddenly, I realized that I was standing in “The Taking.”

I related too well to The Garden of Gethsemane. The burden and the weight of what lies ahead for me. But never, did I see The Taking. It was the sudden passion and fire to take my birthright and defend it to ensure the safety of my People. 

This is The Taking.