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The Theory of Love
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The Fear system/Guilt System

NOTE : When I wrote this in February 2024, I could not feel my Self-Preservation System… It took me a few months to realize that the Fear System was the Dichotomy of Love, and was not at all even PART of my System. The “Fear System” is Invasive and it overshadows The Self Preservation System. 

This chapter is how it was written in February 2024, and may need review. 

I am a firm believer that the Fear System is present only in early Childhood development prior to the development of our Mathematical and Logical Intuition. That, in a child where Parental and External Interference does not occur, the Intuition, Defense System, and Logical Belief fueled by Choice and Self-Authority would naturally develop and the Fear System would never fully develop. 

 

I believe that the Fear System only develops in children (aged 2+ years) who experienced and suffered from Parental and External Interference, which disrupted their Defense System, Power of Choice, Self-Authority, Slowed/Stalled/Froze their Learning Metronome, and stunted/crippled their Ethical Development… which is why the majority of the population is stuck at 1st, 2nd, 3rd, and 4th Ethical Perspective of the I of I. 

 

Left over from the 1st and the 2nd Perspective of the I of I, The Fear System remains activated when education does not occur and Problem Solving does not happen. The only cure to Fear is Choice. The more choices a person makes, the less Fear they will have. 

 

I have the Fear Nevermore Game I composed to help people recognize and overcome their fears while also reactivating their “Problem Solving” skills and Power of Choice.

 

The Guilt System is not part of the Mental System at all. It is Invasive. Guilt is actually “Shame” put there through abuse to control the Mental Environment by Abusers who want to ensure your obedience and loyalty to them in their absence. Guilt (Shame) is the Emotion given to people when they are not Obedient and when they are neglecting their abuser.

 

I call Guilt the Slave Emotion. And it very much is. You only feel it when you are not “Obeying.” 

 

In most cases, “neglecting your abuser” is synonymous with “self care” and “Self love.”

 

This is because Identity Displacement (Narcissism, Borderline Personality Disorder, Codependency) is fueled by scarcity of resources including “Being Visible.” The Scarcity Mindset says, “If you do X, then I won’t have Y.”

 

X = Self-Care/Self-Love

Y = Your-Care/Your-Love

Economics is the cause of all abuse. Limited Resources and an inability to save The Self… which fuels limited resources. Plummeting the individual into “Scarcity” mindset, which launches an aggressive, “fight” or “manipulate” to get desired resources.