The Ugly Truth     

Comfort vs. Growth : Loyalty to God, The Parent, The Tradition vs. The Self

No matter how you look at it, Healing does or does not happen because of three consistent factors:

• Self-Honest-Based Accountability 
• Prioritized Self Above All Else
• Perseverance to do whatever It Takes

All three elements must be present 100% of the time during healing, no matter what. As soon as all three are achieved, Healing starts. Abandon even one of them, however, during the Healing process, and Healing stalls out and stops completely.