The Life Vitals : Dealing with Suicide

Suicide is not a topic I am stranger to. I remember the first time I heard an aunt of mine comment : “People who commit suicide are selfish because they don’t think about the people they leave behind.”

I seethed with anger when I heard her say that. People who attempt and succeed at suicide are so overwhelmed with despair and/or pain that thinking is a luxury they can even afford. I remember thinking how “nice” it must be to know so little despair or pain that she had no idea about suicide. 

The majority of suicides are attempted because people believe, they think that “there is no hope.” On my first day of therapy, my therapist told me right off, “There is no cure. You will have these mental illnesses for the rest of your life.” 

Her words dumped a cold sick into the pit of my stomach and, that night, I contemplated suicide. “If there is no cure, then why bother?” Unfortunately, this statement is common for therapists to say. 

In truth, “No cure that *they* know of at that time,” but there very much is. I always argued that, if they can throw around the word “Diagnoses” then we most certainly can throw around the word “Cure.” However, it would not take Psychology to resolve this Mental Health Crisis of a Divided Self, perception of Reality, and the Existential. This was the work of Physics, Ontology, and Philosophy.

And it was in those mastered subjects of mine that I did find the answers to “cure” my “incurable” mental illnesses and full heal and recovery me. Proudly, I can say that not one drop of Psychology was used in my healing. Just pure Physics, Logic, Philosophy, and Ontology.

Suicide is very much the result of lacking two or three of the Three Life Vitals. 

Love. Value. Purpose. 

You can afford to not have one of these and be “fine.” Losing two of these, leave you contemplating suicide. Losing all three leads you to the attempt of Suicide. 

There is substantial hope! In this book, I will be covering with you what these three Life Vitals are, how to cultivate, obtain, and nurture yours, and then how to fuel them to make them all three stable and self-sustaining.

There is substantial hope. You *do* have love. You just need to learn how to find it, see it, receive it, and accept it. You *do* have value. You just need to learn how to find it, see it, receive it, and accept it. You will be taught how to find and define and set your life purpose. 

NOTE : 

Upon my completion of the Second Life Stream on “Dreams,” I realized that there are THREE Core Purposes to Life. Not One. 

• What You Desire and Want. What you are Doing For YOU.
• Your Service to Humanity and Other. Your Calling.
• Your Love Purpose. “Why” you do what you do. For Whom.

2 of 3 of these are required for Stable life Fulfillment. The Pursuit of these three things, the belief in being able to obtain them, is vital to Managing and Avoiding Suicidal Ideation.