Communication and Education
“My goal is to eliminate your fear with education as much as possible. The more you know. The more you understand. The less fear you will have. There is nothing here that I am giving to you that I did not also do myself… am still doing myself (in some cases).”
Communication is going to be an on-going topic through this. The three Primary Contributors in Mental Health are Miscommunication, Ignorance, and Your Participation. In fact all Abusers needs 3 things from you :
- Your Ignorance
- Your Participation/Availability
- Your Silence/Cooperation
I have a personal agenda in writing this. I was raped May 2023. I received a lot of anger from the community that I was in.
Anger that I did not escalate my case to Legal Matters.
Anger that “I let him get away.”
Anger that I got angry about being raped.
I realized that the best vengeance was to take the Victims away from the Abusers. And I know how to do that because I know what you need so you don’t get abused any more. You need to be Ignorant. You need to be Available. You need to Cooperate.
Abusers run on Fear and Insecurity, which means, in the majority of cases, Abusers will cower and run with a small amount of push back. We will cover this in a later chapter (Abuse Proof You).
Education is the key to Abuse Proofing you. And this book is designed to do just that.
What you most likely don’t know is that the Dark Web has a book that teaches Abusers how to use Psychology to find, target, test, prepare, groom, manipulate, and abuse Victims.
The Theory of Love and The Healing Garden is my Solution to that book. I say, fight fire with fire. This book will be walking you through the knowledge you need to Abuse Proof You. Provide you with the Boundaries, Discernment, and Tools you need to make you Inaccessible to Abusers. And how to restore your Voice and End Your Silent Prison once and for all.
I was silent about my abuse that held me captive for 40 years in Domesticated Terrorism and Slavery. I was a Shut-In with Social Anxiety for 20 years. My methods detailed in this book freed me from within the Enslavement, built me up, allowed me to escape, Healed me, cured all of my mental disorders, and got me to my current future where I am an award-nominated author today that teaches people how to free themselves using my Voice.
Believe me when I say, if I could come back from the hell in which I suffered, well then so can you. And no one has endured more than I, for as long as I, and made it out alive. You can save yourself. I promise you. I know you can. And this book shows you how.