The Ethical Trial
To learn how to Secure your Own Nurturing with Grounding and Energizing Disciplines to Nurture your own Comfort to the point of Boredom.
The Ethical Body (Inside The Dimension) :
Boredom +> Restlessness +> Curiosity +> Excitement +> Desire to Take Action…
This “Activates” your desire to Adventure within the 2nd Ethic.
Your Vulnerability will hit first. It is the feeling of leaving your Safety Cocoon for Adventure. And now… you have to choose.
You will stand on the threshold of Safe Cocoon vs. Vulnerable Adventure.
And now the True Trial Reveals itself to you : Courage
Courage vs. Apprehension of The Unknown (Not Fear)
Courage to Overcome The Apprehension and the Stagnate Routine
Ethical Resources
From the 1st Ethic, you gain:
- Emotional Regulation
- Confidence
- Security
- Self-Love
- A Solid Life Foundation
Ethical Priority
- To Build Your Comfort Zone
- To establish your Goals, Priorities, and Dreams
- Plotting out your Life Journey
Authority
- The Caregiver
- The Mother
Value
- Approval
- Safety
- Comfort
- Belonging
Strength
Love! These people are VERY loving and kind! They are VERY gentle! The most beautiful people in the world are the 1st Ethic.
Weakness
Fear, not knowing who you are (You won’t know who you are until you live the Adventure. That is why we Adventure. Who we are is knowing what we can do.
No Proof of Concept… yet
They Indulge In…
- Comfort,
- Safety,
- Love
- Play
They Avoid
- Going on the Adventure
- Pushing the Self
- Vulnerability
Common Pitfalls :
Too much focus on False Self-Care. Comfort is not Self-Care. If your Self-Care is not Grounding you and Energizing you, then it is a “bandaid.”
Skill Building
Ethics are Skills : The Goal is to get you to the Master Skill Level of Each of these Ethics.
Symptoms if The 1st Ethic is not completed:
- Addiction
- Depression
- Codependency/Narcissism (Consumption)
- Homelessness
- Self-Loathing
- Lack of Trust in the Self
- Failure to Launch
- Suicide
Common causes of Obstruction:
- Enabling Mothers
- Narcissistic Caregivers
- Helicopter Parents
- “Helping”
Remedy:
In Struggles and being left to our own devises, the Individual is forced to take care of them selves and Problem Solve.
Problem Solve for yourself.
Parents REQUIRE to LEAVE THEIR CHILDREN ALONE