This is an interesting Cycle I recently analyzed with a Doctor in Lab QED.
The Enable-Seeking Patient Wanting to Feel Better Traumatizes The Doctor <+> The Traumatized Doctor <+> Traumatized Doctor Traumatizes The Patient wanting to Get Better
This is such a normal part of the Medical Field that Doctors have terminology for these Patients. They are called “Symptom Magnifiers.” Patients who augment their symptoms to Pity, Sympathy, or Attention, which they mistake as “feeling loved” and visible.
Stepping into this world with the knowledge I have in Psychological Physics, allowed me to discuss with him, in depth, this toxicity of this Cycle.
The Doctor has the Calling to want to help people help themselves to Get Better.
Patients fall into two categories :
- The Patient who wants to Feel Better and
- The Patient who wants to Get Better.
The Patient who wants to Feel Better has no intentions on doing the work ever to Get Better. They use the Doctor as a Codependent in their Addiction Relationship of Needing Attention and Pity, which they associate with “Love.”
The Doctor who craves to help people help themselves to Get Better, ends up with “Symptom Magnifiers” as he explained to me. Patients who magnify their Symptoms for attention and Sympathy.
The Doctor develops a routine that reflects the “Feel Better” options that have nothing to do with “Getting Better.” The Doctor knows the remedy he provided is not a solution at all because the “Feel Better” patients complain and don’t want the actual remedy.
Over times, the Doctor adapts to the complaints and hands out the Placebo that isn’t a remedy at all and their life Fulfillment declines.
When The Patient who wants to Get Better arrives, they receive the “Feel Better” remedy, which is a Placebo. The lack of results from the Placebo, wasted time and resources under suffering, results in Trauma for the Patient who wants to Get Better.
While the Doctor goes on to be Traumatized by the Patient who only wants to Feels Better.
As a result, The Doctor gets sick, and the Patients remain ill.
He explained that this was most common in Older Women. I nodded. 2nd Ethical Perspectives. Yup. 100% accurate to my Data in Psychology.
I have seen this trend also among Support Groups and in Psychology also.
This is one proposal I had.
Provide each patient with two Remedies :
The Remedy to Feel Better and
The Remedy to Get Better.
Tell the Patient they can choose whichever Remedy they want, but only the “Get Better” Remedy actually works. Schedule a Follow up in 2 weeks.
You will know then which patients are your “Feel Better” Patients and which Patients are your “Get Better” Patients. The Feel Better Patients actually require a Psychologist and question presents the Question, “Do you really want to get better?” and “What are you afraid you’ll lose if you’re not broken or sick?”