Of all my studies, nothing blind-sighted me more than Fear. 

Fear is our Vulnerability. 

Without this moment, this single Moment in Relationships when we kneel down and say, “These are my Fears” and “This is what I am afraid of” I would say — and have said — that Fear has no purpose. 

Accept this right here. 

Fear is something that a Healthy Person outgrows at age 2, replacing “Fear” with Knowledge and Logic. Logic and Knowledge makes Fear obsolete. 

The Argument “Well it’s for when we have to respond or react to Tigers or Bears” is the only Argument anyone has ever been able to present to me, to which I reply, “But if you were thinking, then you would have avoided the Situation entirely to begin with and — Some Bears, you are not supposed to Run away from.”

In all my research and Knowledge Fear is obsolete, replacing Fear with Logic and Knowledge. “After Earth” is a great example of this. 

So what is Fear?

I’m doing it! 

That moment when Tom Cruise overcomes his Fears and he bears all with “You complete me.” 

Or in Hitch, when Will Smith throws himself all in at the end and he talks about the Fears that come with Love… and then you realize just how much Love makes you do crazy things…

Fear is The Point of Connection In Vulnerability.

It is the Point of “Bear All” where two people Connect.

It’s you presenting yourself at your most Humbled, most Vulnerable, most Open to say, “Here I am. This is me.” 

Our Fears are Who we are. It says everything about us.

And when you seek to Connect, it is in The Fear Exposed and Revealed that we Connect.