When you meet, things are fantastic. This is the “Puppy Dog” stage where you put each other both on a Pedestal. 

You Deitize Each Other. I call this “The God Stage.” 

This is when you both see each other as Gods. 

As the God Delusion crumbles, you begin to see each other’s Human. This is when the Test Begins.

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I have endured 4 versions of this that were with Narcissist Love. 

I have endured 1 Version of this with True Love. 

The Difference was Night and Day.

Stage #1 : The God Delusion for Narcissism Love

1. The Delusion lasted 3 months to 6 months
2. Things changed over night.
3. The Screaming, Violence, and Yelling began.
4. The Blame was constant.
5. We lashed out during Conflicts
6. There never was any apology.
7. We screamed and fights escalated hot, loud, violent, and fast.
8. We were relieved when it ended
9. The Ending was abrupt and Fast
10. We remained hateful and angry for decades.

Stage #1 : The God Delusion for True Love 

1. The Delusion lasted 12 months.
2. We slowly, gently nourished each other through the Gradual Decline from God to Man.
3. There never was any Violence until the very end, and at the first glimpse, that is when we both knew it was out of hand. 
4. We both never blamed.
5. We cried and Nourished each other during Conflicts
6. We were both always first to apologize.
7. We got quieter and both whispered, as if we both were more concerned with each other’s feelings and Vulnerability.
8. We couldn’t end it.
9. The Ending never came. When we did “end it,” we both cried and nourished each other instead.
10. We never felt hate or anger. We forgave long before we even felt anger.

After The God Delusion breaks down and The Human Version of your Love Remains, this is when The Real “Love Trial” begins. 

You fall in love as Gods. But will you love each other as Human? 

As soon as you both are Human, Narcissist Love ends. Narcissists only want Gods. This is where Narcissists go “Look for an Upgrade.” 

Stage #2 : The Fire Walk

True Love endures the Fire Walk.

At The “Valley of Shadow and Death” or “The Fire Walk” this is where True Love walks through The Ethical Love Trial.

It is when True Love activates “The Purge” and both of you begin to Heal all your Past Trauma by facing all of your Lies. It is between You and Your Self. Your partner cannot be part of this. 

Both must be alone. 

Both Gods — as Humans — endure their Trial alone and separate. As Ashavana, my Partner and I took turns carrying each other. When we finally were both too tired to carry the other, we both rested in the mud. 

We waited for each other. Our Trials were Different. We were in ours for 2 Years.

The Physics and the Psychology and Biology of this is extraordinary.

Love Creates. It is “Nourishing Growth” and it does Nourish Growth in its Purist Form. This includes “Healing Properties.” So when two people with Malnourishment come together, True Love activates the Nourishment as both feel Nourishing Love — in many cases for the first times in their life. 

This activates “The Healing Journey” and — In True Love — when the Nourishment is so strong, it finally exceeds the Toxins and Lies. 

The Purge begins. 

The Lies and Masks all surface as Logical Comprehension is Corrected. Lies and Denials are faced and addressed and The Truth is finally seen and accepted.

This is a process that spans the entire Life of each Partner. 

One-By-One, each Lie, Trauma, and Mask is confronted, Purged, Corrected, and removed as the Logic and Self-Love is Restored. 

As one Person (The Chaser) Heals, the Other Person (The Runner) Mirrors and Mimics. Quantum Entanglement breaks this down in detail. The Bonding is already done and complete. The Bonding is both a Required Element of this Process.

The Bonding is what it Activates The Fire Walk.

The Bonding is what gets both Partners through The Fire Walk.

The Bonding is what brings them both together once The Fire Walk is complete.

This is a Test of Strength on The Bonding, which is what restores the Faith in Love for both Partners.

The Bonding is what Heals All.

Recap  

All Relationships — False and True — begin with “God Status,” then decline to “Human Status.”

The “Human Status” is meant to break False Love, and it does.

Sex without Vulnerability will not Bond you. Sex with Vulnerability will Bond you every time. And when it does, it Activates The Healing and The Fire Walk. 

The Fire Walk will feel like it is “Testing Your Love.” In fact, it is putting you through Purification of Truth, Confession to Self and Your Love, and Purging You of Lie.

The Duration is equal to your Resistance and the Quantity of your Lies and Denials.

True Love is tested in both “God Status” and “Human Status” before both are gifted with “Immortal Status” when both Partners rise up again to Join and Unite in “Immortal Status.”