You need to know about Pair Bonding and Pair Bonding Disruption. 

You need to know about Resource Partitioning. 

You need to remember “As it is on One Level, so it is on All Levels.”

All you are learning here is The Logical Sequence of Nourishment.

100% of all things in the Everything Of All is about Resources. 

Resource Science is The Study of Having Enough Nourishment to Grow to get Bigger.

100% of all things in the Everything Of All is broken into only Three Groups : 

(You are going to love this, Dr. Dan)

1. Nourish (Input) = Energy
2. Grow (Output) = Energy 
3. Regulate Input and Output (Regulate) = Frequency

You learn these three Things : You See these Three Things, and only then will all of Everything finally make sense to you. 

Addiction is what happens when A Person Learns that Nourishment Sources will not/Cannot Nourish you, so you learn that Nourishment Sources cannot/will not Nourish you. 

So you Supplement the True Nourishment Source with a False Source.

This compromises your Freedom to Nourish As Needed, which leads to you questioning your Self-Authority, which creates Doubt, which leads to a loss of Confidence and Self-Esteem… 

Imagine a Symbiotic Creature Suckling. You are that Symbiotic Creature. 

Mother or Parent is supposed to provide the Nourishment.

Mother or Parent Suckles from their Nourishment Source, which feeds and Nourishes the Parent and The Creation/Creature (Same thing). 

In Addiction, The Mother or Parent Suckled Nourishment from the Child creating a catch-22 or a Logic Loop that turned the Dependent (Creature) into an Independent for the Independent (Now Dependent) Parent.

You will not have enough Nourishment to go around. 

Both will Starve. 

So the Symbiotic Creature learns that Nourishment Sources — Love — does not equal Nourishment. 

The Symbiotic Creature then seeks out a Supplement — Not Love. It is the Supplement that fails to Nourish them. 

The Logical Fallacy inside the Symbiotic Creature is “I cannot Nourish To Grow.” They end up with Mental Diabetes, which Starves them and does, slowly kill then over their lifetime. 

It is a slow death. 

Love Nourishes to Grow.

They need True Love, and they need so much of it, that they learn that Love does, in fact, Nourish to Grow.

When we Pair Bond, we activate — which spends — Nitrogen (Energy). Pair Bonding has Three Stages : 

1. Spend Energy + Nitrogen
2. Connect
3. Receive Energy X 3 + Nitrogen X 3 

Pair Bonding Disruption occurs after Stage #1 and before Stage #. 

How many times do you think you can go through Stage #1, spending Energy + Nitrogen every time before you just… can’t afford one more attempt? 

Fun Fact : Connection releases Oxytocin and… you guessed it… Dopamine. 

Fun Fact : Your DNA, RNA, and ATP (The thing in your Mitochondria that BUILDS your DNA and RNA), all are built from Nitrogen, spending Nitrogen to Build to create more Energy and Nitrogen. 

Which means, when you Spend and fail to Connect, you DON’T have enough Nitrogen or energy to build your Cell, your ATP, your DNA, or your RNA… oh… but your Body is building, regardless. 

Connection and Nourishment are REQUIRED. 

So the Symbiotic Creature learns “Love does not Equal Nourish To Grow,” and the Symbiotic Creature seeks a Supplement. 

But the Supplement : 

1. Spend Energy + Nitrogen
2. Connect
3. Receive False Energy

You are not “Addicted.” You are starving and you’re desperate for Nourishment while a Logical Fallacy has reprogrammed your Nourishment Source. 

You are just Miscalibrated so you cannot function at Optimum Levels. That is all.

Your Definitions are False. 

So yeah. Words. Matter. 

A LOT.