There is a point in every relationship where Vulnerability (Submission) and Power (Domination) are exchanged in trade. 

If the exchange is not made, then the Connection terminates. It is not possible to have a Connection with Vulnerability and Power defined, established, exchanged, and balanced.

If Power is traded, then it is a Connection of Domination and Submission.

If Vulnerability is traded, then Equal Footing is Established.

In the case of Twin Flames or Avoidant/Anxious Attachment Styles (same thing), then one Side has Gifted Vulnerability to establish a Connection, while the other has not.

The Anxious/Chaser will gift Vulnerability creating a One-Sided Connection.

“Pulling Away” turns the “Nourishment” from Output to Input, which reverses the Polarity of the Circuit.

But if you’re bluffing and not being Authentic or Genuine about the Withdraw, then you’re no longer playing “Vulnerability” for Equal Footing. You’re playing the “Power” card for Manipulation. 

The Moment “Love” is established in a relationship, the “clock starts ticking down” like a timer on the Relationship. Vulnerability is the Price required to be paid at every “Level.” And if both partners don’t pay out, you don’t graduate to the next Level and the Connection will be severed.