Introduction :
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- What is Human Connection? : Vulnerability + Trust + Shared Perspectives
- The Circle of Trust and Human Connection
- Boundaries and Human Connection?
- Ignoring the Red Flags
- Red Flags are not “personal.” They are predictable and “Text Book.”
- 1 Red Flag = Mental Issues are present and should activate your Boundaries. Look for their Social Awareness. People are allowed to make mistakes. They may be in therapy. But be on the lookout for a 2nd Red Flag or an apology or acknowledgement on the first flag.
- 2 Red Flags = Mental Crisis… they may be barely holding their shit together. I am a huge believer that 2 Red Flags is a “done deal.” This person is not ready to be dating/making friends. Don’t get attached. Give them space.
- 3 Red Flags = They have a LOT of Mental Work that they are NOT doing. No matter how many “green lights” there are, this person should be focusing on their self-work and not trying to cultivate friendships or romantic interests.
- Realistic Expectations of Germinating the Seeds of Connection
- When Social Deprivation drives Desperation and Impatience
- Breaking the Cycle of Loneliness > Desperation > Patience > Connection
Conflict Resolution Between You and Your Loved Ones
- When Two Perspectives Collide : Recognizing when you’ve slipped into a Perspective Gap
- Right + Wrong + You
- “Saving You” from the “Wrong” Perspective
- Communication Breakdown = Splitting Perspectives
- Healing from your People Pain : The Process
- Acknowledging The Pain, the Scars, what you desired, and what you lost
- Realizing Your Truth : What you wanted and Didn’t Get from those you loved
- Accepting and Processing your Truth : That you did not know how to connect properly to nurture a healthy relationship
- Realizing the scope of the pain and loss from that ineptitude
- Acceptance : Making the space within your heart to feel the sadness
- Letting the sadness grow as Pain decreases
- Sadness Cures Pain = Sadness is Acceptance while Pain is Resistance / Confusion
- Healing from your Pain + Converting the Sadness into Peace + Trying Again with people… the right way this time
Anna’s Notes … 👇👇 Ignore those. They are for Anna.
Friendships after 30 – How to make friends
Honest Connections”
How many of us make dishonest connections with people who are, in essence, strangers, and then when they “violate our trust” we lash out and scream “PEOPLE HURT ME!”
Do they? Or did you give a stranger a Level 10 Trust Action before ensuring they were Safe enough to Trust?
“Level 10 Trust Action”
Are you so driven and blinded by Pure social Deprivation, that you jumped in and trusted the first person you came across, desperate to connect with ANYTHING? Our need to
Current Work In Progress : I’m doing a Social Study right now where I’m applying my work to adult social settings to determine the correct way to integrate what Trust, Vulnerability, Open-Mindedness with people while being Imperfectly Authentic so a proper and healthy and honest connection can be made. I will keep you posted! “Honest Connections” … That’s the problem right there. How many of us make dishonest connections with people who are, in essence, strangers, and then when they “violate our trust” we lash out and scream “PEOPLE HURT ME!”
Do they? Or did you give a stranger a Level 10 Trust Action before ensuring they were Safe enough to Trust?
Do you even know HOW to connect with someone? Can you describe it? How does an individual connect with another human? Do you KNOW the answer? (And this is not an opinion. This is a Philosophical Science called “Behavioral Science”). Now.
How does an Individual Successfully and safely connect with another human being?
Exploring this topic in depth on Shifting Perspectives.
Are you so driven and blinded by Pure social Deprivation, that you jumped in and trusted the first person you came across, desperate to connect with ANYTHING?
Do you even know HOW to connect with someone? Can you describe it? How does an individual connect with another human? Do you KNOW the answer? (And this is not an opinion. This is a Philosophical Science called “Behavioral Science”). Now.
THINK.
How does an Individual Successfully and safely connect with another human being?
Exploring this topic in depth on Shifting Perspectives.
Triadic Healing : The Syllabus Part #3 : Self-Purpose + Resources + Money
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