Slave : A person who makes Survival Choices steeped in Fear in order to Exist or Live in compliance with an Abuser or an Oppressor without the freedom to even consider their own pleasure, joy, happiness, or desires. 

Slave : A person who lives without Freedom.

Freedom : The ability to make Choices 100% and solely on what you desire, want, and love without Fear ever being a factor in your decision.

Sloppy Language gets you sloppy results. Language is everything. Those who manifest, are well aware the sensitive, power, and importance of words.

However, we live in an age where we use words that are careless, sloppy, and destructive and we don’t even know it.

For this reason, I welcome you to “Anna’s Dictionary” where I provide awareness to the language we are using every day. May you use this to open your mind to a perspective that allows your healing.

Restrictive Projections and Perspective Abuse that we are not aware of.

Restrictive Projections

Perspective Gap

Perspective Abuse

Perspective Intolerance = When someone is intolerant of another person’t perspective. Example: “Because I do not understand your actions or beliefs, you should not do that.”

Maternal / Paternal = This is a “Gender Rule” where someone with Perspective Intolerance attempts to force their projected confusion and lack of understanding onto others.

Feminine / Masculine = This is a “Gender Rule” where someone with Perspective Intolerance attempts to force their projected confusion and lack of understanding onto others.

Nurturer Energy = The Energy and Characteristic Trait

Provider Energy

Rule = A Projection of someone’s insecurities onto another because they feel threatened by the Security of another person. The rule projects their feeling threatened onto the other person and is an attempt to make them comply to their own Perspective intolerances.

Blamers are Narcissists who have not learned tolerance, so they expect everybody else to accommodate their intolerance.

“I’m sorry.” means “Please abuse me.”

“I’m sorry” is the RED FLAG that tells you when you should be using a Boundary.

“No offense” means “Here is my perspective. Please don’t be mad at me.”

Selfish – Name Calling in disguise – The “Blamer” projects their own insecurities onto a different Perspective.

Arrogance – Name Calling in disguise – The “Blamer” projects their own insecurities onto a different Perspective.

Materialistic – Name Calling in disguise – The “Blamer” projects their own insecurities onto a different Perspective.

Crazy or Insane – Name Calling in disguise – The “Blamer” projects their own insecurities onto a different Perspective.

Stupid – Name Calling in disguise – The “Blamer” projects their own insecurities and / or Misunderstandings onto a different Perspective.

What does this mean?

“Show Some Respect.”

Not “Talk to your partner” … try instead “Understand your partner.”

Not “Playing the victim” … try instead “They are looking for humility.”

Not “This is my house and my rules! Respect me!” … try instead “You are inside MY perspective!”

This is actually very abusive. NO ONE can force their perspective on an environment. THAT IS Perspective Abuse.